Outsourcing our family is a good word of what happens when we do daycare, summer camps, sports leagues, and myriads of activities our kids get sent to. They are not “bad”, but we do have to be cognizant of the effects on our children.

Thanks for your comment.

An Australian psychologist here (Steve Biddulph) got in a lot of hot water in the 90s with women’s groups here for suggesting many of the same things as Anne.

I don’t think daycare is necessarily wrong. But I can certainly see what she is saying here. It’s an unfortunate social development. We outsource so much in our life that we need to be careful not to completely outsource our family.

Mind you this HAS happened before in history. Wealthy families over the centuries have outsourced and undernurtured their kids too. That’s had mixed results. It’d be an interesting comparison to make.